Suggestions for leading a study:
Get to Work
6In
the name of the Lord Jesus Christ, we command you, brothers, to keep away from
every brother who is idle and does not live according to the teaching you
received from us. 7For
you yourselves know how you ought to follow our example. We were not idle when
we were with you, 8nor
did we eat anyone's food without paying for it. On the contrary, we worked
night and day, laboring and toiling so that we would not be a burden to any of
you. 9We
did this, not because we do not have the right to such help, but in order to
make ourselves a model for you to follow. 10For even when we were with you,
we gave you this rule: "If a man will not work, he shall not eat."
11We hear that some among you are idle. They are not busy; they are busybodies. 12Such people we command and urge in the Lord Jesus Christ to settle down and earn the bread they eat. 13And as for you, brothers, never tire of doing what is right.
14If anyone does not obey our instruction in this letter, take special note of him. Do not associate with him, in order that he may feel ashamed. 15Yet do not regard him as an enemy, but warn him as a brother.
Discussion Questions
-Read
verse 6. Why do you think it would be
important to stay away from people who are being intentionally idle?
-According
to verse 7, what kind of an example did Paul, Silas and Timothy set for the
church at Thessalonica?
-What
kinds of examples have you seen that have been inspiring to you in regards to
working hard? Have you ever had anyone
point to you as an example of this?
-
In verse 8 Paul
and friends give their reason for working so hard. What is it?
-What
are some ways that not working hard creates burdens for other people?
-In
verse 9 Paul reminds them that as an apostle, he had a “right” to financial
support from them which he was not insisting on. Are there circumstances in our lives in which we might be able to
justify not making a contribution with our labor, but could do so voluntarily
in order to be a good example?
-What
was the rule in the church described in verse 10? Does this seem harsh, given the context of a church
fellowship? Why would it be
important?
-Verse
11 describes a problem that idleness often leads to. What is it, and how do you think it displays itself?
-Re-read
verses 14 and 15. What is our attitude
toward someone who has a problem with idleness?
-With
this sin, as with any other among people in the church, the ultimate goal is
restoration to right behavior and fellowship with the body. What can we do to make that a reality if
someone is caught up in the sin of idleness?
Leaders' Guide
This lesson explores the sin of being idle. Why it is so wrong, and how we can help
ourselves and each other achieve victory over it.
-Read verse 6.
Why do you think it would be important to stay away from people who are
being intentionally idle?
This is a discussion starter, so kick it around. If the whole passage was read before-hand (as suggested), some of
the group may remember from verse 14 that the goal is to shame people into
right behavior. Some other reasons
might be that this sort of sin (like just about all of them) can be contagious
and we could be drawn into it. Or we
could be taken advantage of if we associate with people who like to avoid
work.
-According to verse 7, what kind of an example did Paul,
Silas and Timothy set for the church at Thessalonica?
Paul, Silas and Timothy are the joint authors of this letter (see v. 1),
and they set an example of not being idle while ministering to the church
there.
-What kinds of examples have you seen that have been
inspiring to you in regards to working hard?
Have you ever had anyone point to you as an example of this?
A discussion question to bring the issue of being a good example by hard
work into, or from, the group’s own experience. The second half of the question really makes it personal, but
don’t allow any guilt trips. Hopefully
it will serve as a motivational thought for people to be re-energized about
working hard.
-In verse 8 Paul and friends give their reason for
working so hard. What is it?
So that they will not be a burden to others. The next question explores the application of this.
-What are some ways that not working hard creates burdens
for other people?
Taken to its extremes, we might become dependent on others for our very
existence. There are seasons of life
(young and very old or infirm) when this is appropriate, but for the most part
the bible condemns the notion of being dependent on others. In work situations it could make others have
to “take up the slack” for us in order to get a job done. Of course, it also negatively effects the
bottom line for employers.
-In verse 9 Paul reminds them that as an apostle, he had
a “right” to financial support from them which he was not insisting on. Are there circumstances in our lives in
which we might be able to justify not making a contribution with our labor, but
could do so voluntarily in order to be a good example?
The attitude of just doing what is required of us is very common and for
the most part accepted. God thinks
differently. For the sake of being a
good example, Christians should be willing to work hard even if they have the
“right” not to. Specific examples
should be easy to find from the workplace, the home, and even in the church or
other volunteer organizations where no-one is “required” to do anything.
-What was the rule in the church described in verse
10? Does this seem harsh, given the
context of a church fellowship? Why
would it be important?
If they didn’t work, they didn’t eat.
In the context of churches in the 1st century which
often-times acted as social welfare agencies for the poor and widowed, etc.,
people would sometimes come to church in order to take advantage of that. As a result, there would not be enough for
the truly needy. If people are able to
work, God expects them to.
-Verse 11 describes a problem that idleness often leads
to. What is it, and how do you think it
displays itself?
Being a busy-body is how the NIV puts it.
In other words, they get involved in aspects of other people’s lives
that are not really their business, since they’re not spending their time
taking care of their own business.
Everybody knows people like this, so avoid the naming of names. Urge the group just to describe how they
have seen this kind of behavior displayed in their experience.
-Re-read verses 14 and 15. What is our attitude toward someone who has a problem with
idleness?
We treat them as a brother. Even
though this instruction can sound a little harsh at points, there is no hint
here that the good and gracious relationships we enjoy in the church should be
put at risk.
-With this sin, as with any other among people in the
church, the ultimate goal is restoration to right behavior and fellowship with
the body. What can we do to make that a
reality if someone is caught up in the sin of idleness?
End the discussion by underscoring the need in the church to always be
working toward restoration and redemption when people are engaging in
deliberate sin. Today’s church and
cultural situation is vastly different from this fellowship in 1st
century Thessalonica, so we need to take the principles from this passage and
talk out creative and redemptive ways to help people with this issue.